Ephesians 5
1Therefore become imitators of God, as beloved children, 2and walk in love, just as Christ also loved us and handed himself over for us as an offering and sacrifice to God, a fragrant aroma.
3But sexual immorality and impurity of every kind or greed must not even be named among you, as is fitting for holy ones; 4nor obscenity and foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving. 5For you know this for certain: no sexually immoral or impure or greedy person—that is, an idolater—has an inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God. 6Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things God's wrath comes upon the sons of disobedience. 7Therefore do not become fellow participants with them. 8For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Walk as children of light—9for the fruit of the light is in all goodness and righteousness and truth—10testing what is pleasing to the Lord. 11And do not share in the fruitless deeds of darkness, but instead expose them, 12for it is shameful even to speak of the things they do in secret. 13But all things, when exposed by the light, are made visible, 14for everything made visible is light. Therefore it says, “Wake up, sleeper, and rise from the dead, and Christ will shine on you.”
15So watch carefully how you walk, not as unwise people but as wise, 16making the most of the opportunity, because the days are evil. 17Therefore do not be senseless, but understand what the Lord's will is. 18And do not get drunk with wine, for that is reckless living, but be filled by the Spirit, 19speaking to one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making music to the Lord with your heart, 20always giving thanks for all things to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, 21submitting to one another in the fear of Christ—22wives to your own husbands as to the Lord, 23because a husband is the head of his wife as Christ also is the head of the assembly, himself the Savior of the body. 24But as the assembly submits to Christ, so also wives to their husbands in everything.
25Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the assembly and handed himself over for her, 26so that he might make her holy, cleansing her by the washing of water with the word, 27so that he himself might present the assembly to himself in glory, without spot or wrinkle or anything of the kind, but holy and blameless. 28In this way husbands too ought to love their own wives as their own bodies. The one who loves his own wife loves himself, 29for no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ also does the assembly, 30because we are members of his body. 31“For this reason a man will leave father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” 32This mystery is great, but I am speaking with reference to Christ and the assembly. 33Nevertheless, each one of you must love his own wife as himself, and the wife must respect her husband.