1 Corinthians 7
1Now concerning the things you wrote: “It is good for a man not to touch a woman.” 2But because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and each woman her own husband. 3Let the husband give his wife what is owed to her, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does; likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 5Do not deprive one another, except by agreement for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer and then be together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 6I say this as a concession, not as a command. 7I wish all people were as I myself am; but each has a gift of his own from God, one this way and another that way.
8To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is good for them to remain as I am. 9But if they are not exercising self-control, let them marry, for it is better to marry than to burn. 10To the married I give this command—not I, but the Lord: a wife must not separate from her husband—11but if she does separate, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband—and a husband must not send away his wife. 12To the rest I say—I, not the Lord: if any brother has an unbelieving wife and she agrees to live with him, he must not send her away. 13And if any woman has an unbelieving husband and he agrees to live with her, she must not send away her husband. 14For the unbelieving husband has been made holy through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been made holy through the brother; otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is they are holy. 15But if the unbeliever separates, let that person separate. The brother or sister is not enslaved in such circumstances; God has called us in peace. 16For how do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?
17Only, let each person walk as the Lord has assigned to him, as God has called each one. This is what I direct in all the assemblies. 18Was someone called when already circumcised? Let him not undo his circumcision. Has someone been called in uncircumcision? Let him not be circumcised. 19Circumcision is nothing and uncircumcision is nothing, but keeping God's commandments matters. 20Let each remain in the calling in which he was called. 21Were you called as a slave? Do not let it trouble you. But if you can indeed become free, take the opportunity instead. 22For the slave called in the Lord is the Lord's freedperson; likewise the free person who was called is Christ's slave. 23You were bought at a price; do not become slaves of people. 24Brothers, let each remain with God in the condition in which he was called.
25Now concerning virgins, I have no command from the Lord, but I give my judgment as one who has received the Lord's mercy to be faithful. 26I therefore think this is good because of the present distress: it is good for a person to remain as he is. 27Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek release. Are you released from a wife? Do not seek a wife. 28But even if you marry, you have not sinned; and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. Yet such people will have affliction in the flesh, and I am trying to spare you. 29This is what I say, brothers: the time has been shortened. From now on, let even those who have wives be as though they had none, 30and those who weep as though not weeping, and those who rejoice as though not rejoicing, and those who buy as though not possessing, 31and those who use the world as though not making full use of it. For the form of this world is passing away.
32I want you to be free from concerns. The unmarried man is concerned with the Lord's affairs, how to please the Lord. 33But the married man is concerned with the world's affairs, how to please his wife, 34and is divided. The unmarried woman and the virgin are concerned with the Lord's affairs, so as to be holy in both body and spirit; but the married woman is concerned with the world's affairs, how to please her husband. 35I say this for your own benefit, not to throw a noose around you, but for good order and undistracted devotion to the Lord.
36But if someone thinks he is behaving improperly toward his virgin daughter, if she is past her prime and it ought to happen this way, let him do what he wishes; he does not sin. Let them marry. 37But whoever stands firm in his heart, under no necessity but having authority over his own will, and has decided this in his own heart, to keep his own virgin daughter unmarried, will do well. 38So the one who gives his own virgin daughter in marriage does well, and the one who does not give her in marriage will do better. 39A wife is bound as long as her husband lives. But if her husband falls asleep, she is free to marry whomever she wishes, only in the Lord. 40Yet she is happier if she remains as she is, according to my judgment; and I think that I too have God's Spirit.